Something I have never really understood is how people fall in love. I do not know if I have ever actually felt real love, to the point where my heart would be broken if someone was no longer in my life. Of course, I have cried over people leaving me, or some of the things people have done, but that is rare. Crying tears is even rarer, I could count on a single hand the number of times I have cried tears, according to my parents the first time was when I was twelve years old.
This is drifting a little off-topic. The main point is that I do not understand how people fall in love, though I would very much like to find out. However what seems to happen is that people fall in love with me incredibly easily. This is not a boastful thing, and I do not know that when they declare love they are speaking genuinely, but it just seems that many people either can fall in love very easily, or I am easy to fall in love with. It is quite inconvenient to be honest.
I detest hurting people, at least emotionally, if I care about them. Physical pain is a more debatable thing depending on levels of masochism, again though, not really relevant. Basically I want to know how to stop people supposedly falling for me, it makes my life far too complicated. I would find it much easier if people could just like me, or fall in lust, everything would be so much simpler.
Anyway, I am off to a world where these things only become important between two in the morning, and ten in the morning, which is meant to be when people sleep, drink, fool around, and socialise with one another.
8 comments:
Love is very often confused with lust. Those who use the word "love" very loosely are usually confusing the two.
Perhaps to stop them falling in lust with you stop shagging them :P
That is my 2 cents worth
dude, the divine miss m said it beautifully dude... people get confused.
honestly- i think the only way you could stop it would be to move into a monastery and avoid women altogether!
but that'd be a tremendous loss bunny ;P
enjoy your weekend!!!
True!
"Women fall in love and men fall asleep."
I think I tend to fall in love or lust easily. Love is a word tossed around too easily, and it's usually better left unsaid between two people. I do believe though that love can be used in a friendly way, and people tend to read too much into the word itself. I think I've lost count of how many lovers you have. :P
I think I love you.
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Well that's interesting, I have faced this experience 3 weeks ago when i went out on that date, and after it ended, my date actually wanted to see me the next day and the after it and ... so we saw each other 7 days in a raw, i was just fulfilling the disire of my date. But what's annoying is the "pushing too hard" part...
I am having the same problem that ur suffering from...Hope we find a cure soon.
love is very rare...lust on the other hand is not! best to be up front about how things work...
hope your weekend was fun!
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