19 October 2007

Writing, Talking and Kinks

First of all someone has suggested I can not write a clean story. I have decided to take this as a challenge, and have started putting up some of my old work and some of my new writings on another blog. I have not decided whether I will do this on a weekly basis, monthly, or just at random, but I have a large stockpile of stories to put up there and I am still writing more.

Recent conversations have made me think about the power words can have over people, not all people but some. For example I have discovered that Sweetie can be reduced to near-incoherent moans through application of the right words over the phone, and can be aroused simply by the right text message.

Apparently the best time to do this is not when she is on lunch break from work. I may pay for that this weekend.

This is only a moderate form of the effect that words can have. It used to be thought that women were much more affected by writing, whereas men preferred visual imagery. This has turned out to be more culturally induced than anything else. In fact both men and women can be equally affected by visual or mental stimulation, and the extremes vary between finding it completely uninteresting, to being almost obscenely affected.

From what I have discovered though most women like at least some form of dirty talking, whether its having someone whisper in their ear 'I want to fuck you', or sweet, romantic nothings.

Yes I can do romantic. I just do not do it often.

I apologise for the amount of rambling. I feel a little drunk, I think its this flu.

3 comments:

Unknown said...

Great first story. I'm looking forward to seeing the rest as you post them.

AngelConradie said...

i'm going over there to read them now!
i love words and stories...

Lopz said...

Interesting point about the visual vs imagined imagery, as that is definitely what we have been raised to believe.

The idea of men choosing written erotica over a porn film is traditionally laughable, but it should certainly not be so.

I can't imagine my other half wanting to read my bonkbusters anytime soon, but the power of words is definitely underrated as a stimulus.